Ever wonder where all those wedding traditions come from? Depending on where you live, weddings you attend will all have different types of things going on. Some will be in churches, some at the beach; some will even play The Chicken Dance at the reception. Here are few things to think about to have a “traditional wedding”.
Typical weddings in the United States are loosely based on the Italians’ structure. If the couple and the couple’s families are religious, they start out their ceremony in a church or somewhere where a priest or pastor can unite them and a usual mass is performed. If it is the bride’s first marriage, she must wear white. This is usually called a white wedding, and originated from Victorian England, and symbolized purity. In Italy, wedding invitations are to this day still engraved and addressed by hand to show the importance of the occasion.
One interesting way many brides are having traditional weddings is the “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a lucky sixpence in her shoe” tradition symbolizing the unity of both families, fidelity, virginity, and financial security. This is also a Victorian-era tradition but is now a part of many weddings celebrated in many countries.
The term “cocktail hour” comes from Italian tradition. At the start of a reception, the bridal party and all the guests are separated for an hour and served cocktails. Nowadays, this hour is typically used for taking pictures and getting things ready. As soon as the hour is over, the bride and groom and the rest of the bridal party enter and perform their first dance. At one point, no gifts were given. Instead, everyone brought the newlyweds an envelope of money and received a wedding favor in return.
In ancient Celtic times, the couple to be married would tie their hands together (called “Handfasting”). This is where the phrase “tying the knot” came from. It’s rarely still used today, mainly in families that celebrate a pagan lifestyle.
And then there are the popular traditions such as rice. Rice is thrown to wish the newlyweds prosperity in their pantry. Then there’s the cake cutting ceremony where the bride and groom often smear cake on each other’s faces. And then there’s the part where the bride tosses her bouquet and the groom tosses his bride’s garter. Whoever catches the bouquet and garter is said to be the next in line to be married.
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